<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Notes from Sol — Sol del Valle</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/</link><description>One planning problem at a time, seen across every ceremony.</description><language>en</language><item><title>A deposit buys the date, not the service</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/a-deposit-buys-the-date</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/a-deposit-buys-the-date</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Whatever the celebration, the first money you pay a vendor is not an advance on the work. It is the price of taking them off the market for one day — which is why it rarely comes back.</description></item><item><title>Book the scarce thing first, then everything with a substitute</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/book-the-scarce-thing-first</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/book-the-scarce-thing-first</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Every ceremony has one or two vendors that cannot be replaced and a dozen that can. The order in which working planners book them is the same across all of them — and it is rarely the order instinct suggests.</description></item><item><title>The head count locks earlier than you think, in every ceremony</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/the-head-count-locks-early</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/the-head-count-locks-early</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Caterers and venues close the number days before the event, not the week of. The clock is the same for a wedding, a quinceañera and a graduation party — what changes is who has to answer, and how.</description></item><item><title>Money from many hands needs one keeper</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/one-keeper-for-many-hands</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/one-keeper-for-many-hands</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Padrinos, godparents, grandparents, two sets of parents: most celebrations are paid by more than one household. That is not the risk. The risk is the promise that never became a line with a name, an amount and a date.</description></item><item><title>The person being celebrated never runs the day</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/the-celebrated-never-runs-the-day</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/the-celebrated-never-runs-the-day</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>The bride, the quinceañera, the graduate, the baby&#x27;s parents, the couple at fifty years: every ceremony has a guest of honor who is also, by default, the one holding the timeline. Working planners break that default on purpose.</description></item><item><title>Every ceremony has a bag: the objects that decide the moments</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/every-ceremony-has-a-bag</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/every-ceremony-has-a-bag</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Rings, heels, a doll, a candle, a stack of tickets: the moments people remember depend on small objects that were in a car or the wrong pocket. The fix is the same everywhere — a list, a bag, a name.</description></item><item><title>Two invitations, two jobs: the calendar and the logistics</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/two-invitations-two-jobs</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/two-invitations-two-jobs</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>A save-the-date and an invitation are not the same message sent twice. One protects a date in people&#x27;s calendars; the other carries the details. Every ceremony needs both jobs done, even the ones that only send one card.</description></item><item><title>The room has physics: draw the path before the tables</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/the-room-has-physics</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/the-room-has-physics</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Chairs take space, a procession needs a clear path, a room that flips between ceremony and dinner takes minutes and hands. The physics are the same in every celebration — and discovered too late by whoever skipped the drawing.</description></item><item><title>The buffer that belongs to nobody</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/the-buffer-that-belongs-to-nobody</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/the-buffer-that-belongs-to-nobody</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Every working budget sets aside 10–15 of the total for nothing in particular. That line has no vendor, no rubro and no name — which is exactly why several different people already assume it is theirs.</description></item><item><title>A verbal quote expires</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/a-verbal-quote-expires</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/a-verbal-quote-expires</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>A number said out loud is not a price. Working planners treat every verbal quote as good for 24–72 hours, and no longer, until it is written down with a date attached.</description></item><item><title>The rehearsal is the risk, not the performance</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/the-rehearsal-is-the-risk</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/the-rehearsal-is-the-risk</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>The moment everyone remembers, the vals, the walk, the first look, is not where a celebration actually breaks. It breaks in the run-through that never happened, or happened once, too late to fix anything.</description></item><item><title>A child is their own line</title><link>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/a-child-is-their-own-line</link><guid>https://soldelvalle.shop/blog/a-child-is-their-own-line</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Guest lists get written by household, and households get counted as adults. Every ceremony loses the same argument with its own kitchen the moment a child shows up who was on nobody&#x27;s count at all.</description></item></channel></rss>